Tuesday, May 3, 2011

May: Reflection & Rejuvenation


I look forward to this monthly ritual of reflection. I am much more likely to follow-through with my intentions when I have this system in place for holding myself accountable.

Let's see how I did last month:
  • Savor my time with my son, Henry, despite the difficult parts: Yes! We are having lots of fun. We have weekly play dates with friends and this month we are going to start swimming!
  • Send printed photos to the grandparents, like I promised to do every month for their Christmas presents last year: I'm going to go do this right now, and then come back to finish this post...okay, DONE!
  • Study Spanish for 20 minutes every weekday (I do this while breast feeding): I did a great job for most of the month, but I've been slacking off at the end. Must re-commit to this!
  • Attend a Montessori class twice a week with Henry and learn as much as I can: Yes!
  • Actively participate in the Purposeful Conception community: Yep.
  • Make a great dish and present for my good friend's Potluck Picnic Birthday Party: Yep.
  • Continue to strengthen my partnership with Matt through each interaction and passing day: Pretty good job!
  • Figure out how to pump and store breast milk: Yes!
  • Go on a date night with Matt: Oops. I forgot about this one...
  • Continue to meet up with other new mothers frequently: Yes! Every single week.
  • Take time to be by myself and go on outings: Yep!
  • Nap! Nap! Nap!: As much as I can...
  • Send birthday cards to my friends/family: For the most part...
  • Start going to yoga once a week and running twice a week (when my midwife clears me): I have signed up for a class that starts this week. As for the running, my midwife explained that running isn't so good on the joints while breast feeding. I'm fine sticking to walking for now.
  • Finalize my book outline: Hmm...I've made progress, but it's definitely not finished.

For this upcoming month, I'm feeling the need to be gentle with myself. I can feel my ambitions starting to overshadow my abilities at the moment. Being my child's first teacher is a huge job! Plus, I'm keeping two blogs going and running an online course. I should consider those among my intentions:
  • Be the best mother and teacher I can be for my son, Henry
  • Maintain consistent posting on my two blogs
  • Advertise for the next Purposeful Conception Course: Preparing Your Mind, Body, and Life for Pregnancy
  • Send printed photos to the grandparents, like I promised to do every month for their Christmas presents last year
  • Study Spanish for 20 minutes every weekday (I do this while breast feeding)
  • Attend a Montessori class twice a week with Henry and learn as much as I can
  • Plan a fun potluck picnic for the next silent film at Discovery Green
  • Plan a reunion for my childbirth class
  • Pump and store enough breast milk for a night away with Matt (while my bonus mom and bonus brother stay with Henry)
  • Send birthday cards to my friends/family
  • Walk frequently and go to yoga once a week
  • Finish my book outline!
  • Finish evaluating the charter applications for the state
  • Be patient and forgiving with myself

I think that's about all I can handle (and that may be too much!).

1 comment:

  1. So ambitious! I'm tuckered just reading your plans. :)

    ReplyDelete

I promise I am open to feedback and truly appreciate hearing others' insights into my choices (it's like free therapy!), but please say it in the same way you would say it if we were sitting across from each other at brunch or next to each other on a park bench while our children play.